Lifes little Changes

We always preach about change, some say its a good thing, some say its a bad thing, but inevitably it comes down to the simple fact that change happens.  I have always been a person that is content with working on my life alone. I have enough on my plate already, little alone take on something else in my life; its just a motto I've become accustom to. I tend to plan everything, or at least try to, but occasionally something can unexpectedly can happen in the midst of those plans.
Ill never forget when things changed, how rude I was to avoid change, or how I kept reassuring myself that there was no chance I would let change happen. While I was coming up with every excuse to avoid what I thought I didn't want to happen, everyone else was coming up with reasons for me to try something different; to change.
Although my friends encouraged everything I had been against, I now can thank them for this. No matter how the end results, the fact still remains that I opened up, changed my thinking a lot, and even for a short time, I was happy.
So, without getting into the details, my main point is change can be good. It undoubtedly can be very scary, but even if an end result could feel like it was all for the worst, the truth remains that a little good came of it all. Every life experience, good or bad,  teaches us a lesson.